Parental Involvement in a Therapeutic Environment
Parents need to be involved in every aspect of their child’s therapy. Children have different needs, but the parents are always an important part of the process. Parents are a child’s first teacher and the most influential person in their lives.
Parental Guilt
When a child is diagnosed with diseases or disorders involving the brain there is an immediate spiral of guilt into the unknown. Parents ask themselves questions such as "Is it something that I did wrong?" or "What could I have done differently?" The guilt associated with your child being diagnosed with a disorder can be overwhelming. A parent can only help so much when a disorder is out of their control, but they can offer time, love, and care to make sure their child gets the best treatment possible.
Parent and Therapist Relationship
The parent and the therapist can work together to create a therapy that creates a normal balance of interaction and independence. Parents should try to find time for therapy sessions; this can lead to higher success with interventions in the home. Parents should show an interest in their child’s therapy even if they may not fully understand the techniques being used. If something is too complex or you don’t understand the importance behind it, ask the therapist! They will support you by answering your questions and making sure that you feel heard. It is important for parents to fully commit to the recommended therapy and not try to modify it on their own. This is the best way to ensure optimal results. Communication with the therapist is key to a successful outcome.
Parent Groups
A Parental Involvement group would help parents reduce stress and provide support for others who know exactly what they are going through. It would also provide education on specific disorders and treatments that may not yet be available on a mass scale. Support groups for parents of children with disabilities provide resources for stress reduction and coping with the disorder. Treating a child with a disability can be emotionally draining; parents must remember to take time for themselves as well.
Tips:
Ensure the environment is safe and stays safe.
Surround the children with familiar objects.
Be consistent in how you enforce the rules.
Use the same terminology for everything.
Help your child make decisions for themselves.
Encourage your child to take risks and be independent.
Set realistic expectations and don't put too much pressure on your child.
Celebrate small wins!
By implementing these steps you can help both you and your child have a positive experience while they are in therapy.